The Break-Up

Sunday, December 10th, 2006 | Domestic Bliss, Rant

I’m sorry if you feel as though I am neglecting you because of my children. You have to understand I can’t be there for everyone all the time and at this particular moment I choose my children. That doesn’t mean I don’t think our friendship isn’t important.

I’m just really tired of you. You are so completely suffocating that I can’t even *think* about you without going into an anxiety attack. You’re selfish, ungrateful and merciless. I try my hardest to make a meaningful connection with you and once, just ONCE I “neglect” you and every good thing I have done with you and for you is forgotten in an instant and I have to try extra hard to get you to respond to me again.

Friendships are hard work - I understand that. However it’s not supposed to be a one-way street. I can’t just keep on giving and giving and not having my friendship acknowledged. I’m not even asking you to give back to me.

You are high-maintenance and I’m exhausted. I’ve convinced my husband to try to get through to you and while he sometimes manages to charm you, even he is getting sick of your never-ending demands. My children don’t want to have a bar of you and I admit that’s probably because of my attitude towards you lately.

So it’s with a heavy heart that I say:

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Housework…..you’re dropped!

15 Comments to The Break-Up

Surviving
December 10, 2006

LOL!! I love it!!!

b.
December 11, 2006

I’d like to write a similar letter to the Housework who lives in my house!

Mona UmIbrahim
December 11, 2006

Salam Tasmiya, that’s so funny and so true! LoLzzzzzzzzzz. You just reminded me, my dishes are calling me…

Lawrence of Arabia
December 11, 2006

i find that whenever i try to break things off with housework, things turn nasty. it really is a sick relationship. what can be done??

em
December 11, 2006

What can I say except, “good riddance”!

Irving
December 11, 2006

haha, I thought you were going to say blogging.

Maliha
December 17, 2006

Salamaat,
you’ve been tagged missy! btw, I LOVE this post. I am inspired to end that sick relationship i have with my housework too!

Surviving
December 17, 2006

You have been tagged!!!

Koonj
December 17, 2006

Good one!

Muslim Apple
December 17, 2006

I thought you were going to say blogging too, my heart jumped when I clicked over here to this new template, I thought something had gone wrong. I miss the old themes but I guess I can’t complain too much because I’m always changing my theme.

shaz
December 18, 2006

me too! :) very funny.

Tasmiya
December 18, 2006

Surviving, b. and UmIbrahim - glad you enjoyed it. Make sure you do those dishes UmIbrahim!

LoA - housework is passive aggressive - you just can’t win no matter what you do. GET RID OF HER!

em - I said that a few days ago but now I am really regretting it. My middle name used to be “slightly messy”..now it’s “squalor.”

Tasmiya
December 18, 2006

Irving and Apple - blogging is a friendship too strong and beautiful to ever give up (at least for now - if there is one thing I am, it’s fickle).

Shaz and Koonj - thanks for visiting and glad you enjoyed :)

alyndabear
December 18, 2006

What a beautiful web design this one is. I’m in awe!

Um Mahtab
December 28, 2006

I want to do the same but my housework will blackmail and torture me with “odours of indeterminate origin” until i give in. Squaloriffic! :D

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