Category: Domestic Bliss


We had a blissfully stress free and boring weekend. In between sitting around and doing nothing (as is my wont) we were packing for 9 year old’s camping excursion and eating delicious food. All homemade and all by husband. Yes, you heard that right. HUSBAND COOKED AND I DID NOT. Whatever will people say?

Actually, I didn’t do much of the packing.  9  year old actually packed pretty much everything himself -yes, you heard that right, too. SON PACKED HIS OWN BAG AND I DID NOT. Whatever will people say? He tried ever so hard to roll up his sleeping bag but what the hell, sleeping bag people? Why is it that it’s so easy to get out of the bag and an adventure in frustration world to get it back in the bag? WHY DO YOU TORTURE US SO? After putting our thinking caps on, we opted to use a different bag for his sleeping bag and all his camping gear fitted neatly in one case.

We were at school early, and we waited till he had boarded the bus and we waved our goodbyes. Surprisingly very few tears though his younger brothers did shed a few. This is his first little expedition away from us (apart from the occasional;  come to think of it, very rare sleep over at my mum or sister’s place). There is so much worry on my side. I am sure he will be ok and he will be fine and will probably be all grown up when he gets back but it doesn’t stop the worry.

I have decided to be tough with my time management. I have allocated half an hour for lunch and the rest of the time I must spend cleaning, cooking, tidying, vacuuming and sorting. So here I am sitting at my computer during my first ever designated lunchtime  and I have this feeling that this new phase will not be lasting very long.

Yesterday was a hectic day, beginning with me realising that I was supposed to attend a prep information evening at the school that evening. After driving from here to there to there to there, finally getting home and tidying up for a short while and then getting the children from school and then having to cook and eat while panicking because husband was taking a bit long to get home and would I have to lug the children to the info evening?! Because I wouldn’t like that and they certainly wouldn’t. Finally he arrives, he eats while I get ready and reminds me that we are almost out of bread. I walk out thinking I had left everything in a huge mess, so many pots to wash and so much rubbish in the bin and tons of clean dishes to be put away.

The information evening was very little NEW info, since I am such a dab hand at the prep/school thing nowadays. I could have given the talk. On the way home, I texted husband to ask if he needed anything besides the bread and to ask how the children were. Here is his text in its entirety:

All ok here. Kids are showered, now reading and one is in bed sleeping. Lunches are made. Kitchen clean and garbage out. Nothing else needed from shops. Love you very much.

Husband is truly remarkable. I mean look at the text, people. JUST LOOK!

I don’t know anyone who can say they’ve received a text like this from their husband before. (except for you, Susan) – Proper sentences, no annoying contractions and not a “LOL” in sight. Bless him.

Can you all just say mashaAllah and carry on. No evil eye here please.

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