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Of Of

Could everyone on the internet get off it right now because my internet is slow.

kthxbye.

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I really hate the expression “Off of” like in that sentence above, it would be written:

Could everyone on the internet get off of it right now because my internet is slow.

We don’t NEED that extra word there. It doesn’t make MORE sense to put that word there. It’s decidedly an American expression but it’s permeating into our unadulterated Australian/English language!

Oh and another one – “in and of itself”

I don’t know if that one is American English but it’s also a pet hate of mine. See, the way I was taught we would use the expression like so: “…which is not a problem in itself but….”

but nowadays I’m hearing this abomination:

which is not a problem in and of itself…

IN AND OF? IN AND OF? Just read that there. IN AND OF? Can something be IN AND OF?

I am not saying that it’s incorrect (like I’m the Professor in English language and linguistics) but it just annoys me no end. So the ofs get put in where they probably don’t belong like some nosy neighbour or meddling auntie but then there’s the of that is like the absent uncle, who never turns up when he is invited to family gatherings.

I say, “a couple of things..”

I’ve heard it and I’ve read it like this

“couple things”

So I think we really need to sort this out once and for all. Is of invited to the party or is he bound to stay at home all by his lonesome?  We can’t keep sending the invites and then get angry when he turns up!

OVER AND OF OUT!

Is it insomnia when it’s 4 in the morning and you still haven’t gone to bed because you’re not actually tired? Or is insomnia when you are actually really very tired but just cannot fall asleep? Or both?

Yes, it’s 4 am January 1st 2009 and surprisingly the reason I am still awake is not due to continual New Year partaying but some other inexplicable reason.

My poor family – they will have a grumpy woman to contend with in the morning, especially if we experience the NEAR BOILING heat we were subjected to today. 38 degrees (that’s Celcius, not Farenheit in case you were wondering). Tired and hot – the perfect way to start the day.

2008 has treated us well, by the grace of God.

I won’t say I’m a better mother but I am a lot more aware of how my reactions affect my children. I am trying very hard to make that deeper connection with them (not always successful I am afraid as there are days where I would rather run away that get close to them.)

How was 2008 for you and what are you looking forward to for 2009?

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