Well, what can I say? Being back is like not having gone at all. The memories of our blissful break are slowly fading while we immerse ourselves in the daily drudgery that is work and annoying the children parenting.
I was asked what it would be like to live in Malaysia and I can honestly say that I would consider it if I could carry around my own personal air conditioning unit to blast me with cold, dry air every minute of the day and night. Aside from the heat and stifling humidity, I can’t say enough about what a beautiful place it is. Of course I viewed everything with those rose coloured holiday spectacles so could I have just not noticed the bad? Absolutely.
As I mentioned in my previous post, my children were welcomed wherever we went. Not just welcomed, but respected and loved. People made allowances for my stroller/pram and helped me whenever they saw me struggle trying to steer the dang thing. If one of my little ones were seen crying, immediately there would be at least two or three people appearing from thin air to help. They tried to make the children laugh, to distract them or just wanted to make sure the boys were OK.
People never get angry. Traffic during peak hours is nerve wracking and drivers weave their way from one lane to the next, oftentimes without even indicating. Nobody seems the least bit phased by this and everyone gives way. More importantly, there are no accidents! If I accidentally bumped into a fellow pedestrian while out shopping, I would immediately apologise but always the victim of my clumsiness would smile and just shake their head as if to say an apology was not even necessary.
Islam is everywhere. Masjids are a frequent site and I am sure my mother and sister were thankful for the prayer rooms in the shopping centres. Nobody need cut their shopping short if it’s time for Zuhr – just head for the prayer room and get back spending. There are adequate areas for women to pray at the masjids too and these are well maintained and of considerable size.
The cost of living from what we saw and compared to Australia is very low. Food is very cheap as is public transport. Fuel is cheaper here too. Wages though would also be small so maybe everything balances out.
Everything is green! The main road from the airport to our hotel was flanked either side with plush rainforest. Such a welcome change from our dry and barren city (Brisbane has just switched to Level 5 water restrictions – might blog about that if I have time). It rained nearly every afternoon in Kuala Lumpur. Not just rain but we were treated to a spectacular lightning show as well. And this is the DRY season.
Yep. I think I could live there.


Ha!Ha! “stare at the white people”? – that’s really funny.
Yes, Malaysia is a beautiful and amazing country. I wish I could visit it more often. I’m glad you enjoyed your stay there.
wow, sounds GREAT!!! mashallah.
I’m glad you had such a wonderful time. You made me want to go!
It sounds beautiful! The humidity would kill me, but as for the rest – it sounds so interesting and exotic. And FRIENDLY!
Glad you’re home and had a safe trip, and I know the feeling; the day after I got back from New Zealand, it was as though I had never left.
ohh. it sounds like you had a good holiday. i feel like i should visit malaysia again for the masjids and the food, then i remember, hey, all that’s available right here in dubai.
see, i wasn’t kidding when i said i’d appointed myself the unofficial tourism agent for the UAE!
btw, i need some annoying children tips
seeker94 – you know I shouldn’t really laugh. My BIL is a blonde haired, blue eyed Australian and the times we ventured out as a large group, he was always getting left behind because people assumed he wasn’t one of us. “No, not you sir…hold on…wait over here sir.” I think we needed to get him a t-shirt that said..I’M WITH THEM!
Shaz – definitely GO! I promise you won’t regret it.
Aly: I noticed that the first time you blogged after getting home. It’s all a bit depressing isn’t it? Holidays are never ever long enough.
Mona: InshaAllah Dubai will be next holiday
Oh I have plenty of annoying children tips – where shall I start?
I’m coming to live with you!
Salam Tasmiya, Alhamdulillah on your safe return. I’m glad you had a good time and a nice break. It was interesting to read about how things are over there. One can get so depressed about the sad state of affairs for Muslims in so many countries, so it’s good to hear about the numerous Masajid and prayer areas in Malaysia, alhamdulillah.
THANK YOU for the lovely account on Malaysia.Gives me hope to give it a try! There is time for that (a few years) but, please pray that when the time comes to make that vital decision, that we make the RIGHT decision, the other option being to return to HK. Pls pray for us.
Malaysia sounds lovely, would love to go there some day. I think I would be ok with the heat and humidity because there’s plenty of that where I live now. Glad you enjoyed your trip.
Malaysia sounds beautiful, but the heat would kill me. but I guess you acclimatize after a while.
I’m glad that you enjoyed your trip to Malaysia overall.
A lot of people can’t stand the weather coz it is hot and humid but many Malaysians work in airconditioned offices and drive airconditioned cars so we don’t notice. However, I’ve heard that some people can’t stand our airconditioned building coz it is too cold sometimes!
Salam sister,
I came across your blog and decided to leave a comment here. I’m a Malaysian myself and really impressed with your POV of my country. I was abroad and recently had came back to Malaysia for good. What I missed the most about Malaysia is obviously the food! Kidding! I missed the Azan actually. Five times a day. Also the people here are so nice though it’s really hot. Please come again. You are most welcome!
Walaikum asalaam. Thanks for stopping by Yuki. Alhamdullilah we don’t realise how much easier things are in a Muslim country. Glad to see you are back home for good now