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We had a blissfully stress free and boring weekend. In between sitting around and doing nothing (as is my wont) we were packing for 9 year old’s camping excursion and eating delicious food. All homemade and all by husband. Yes, you heard that right. HUSBAND COOKED AND I DID NOT. Whatever will people say?

Actually, I didn’t do much of the packing.  9  year old actually packed pretty much everything himself -yes, you heard that right, too. SON PACKED HIS OWN BAG AND I DID NOT. Whatever will people say? He tried ever so hard to roll up his sleeping bag but what the hell, sleeping bag people? Why is it that it’s so easy to get out of the bag and an adventure in frustration world to get it back in the bag? WHY DO YOU TORTURE US SO? After putting our thinking caps on, we opted to use a different bag for his sleeping bag and all his camping gear fitted neatly in one case.

We were at school early, and we waited till he had boarded the bus and we waved our goodbyes. Surprisingly very few tears though his younger brothers did shed a few. This is his first little expedition away from us (apart from the occasional;  come to think of it, very rare sleep over at my mum or sister’s place). There is so much worry on my side. I am sure he will be ok and he will be fine and will probably be all grown up when he gets back but it doesn’t stop the worry.

In a cruel twist, the weather decides to shine brightly( after what? 7 days of straight cloud and rain) the very day the children are back at school.

I feel good. Not that the boys have left me – for that I am miserable. We spent a glorious few days on the Sunshine Coast this last week and as everything else, it had to come to an end.

We had a few minor medical emergencies before the holiday. The day before we set off, my uterus decided to scare me with contractions that just would not stop. They were not painful but they were frequent and since most of my labours start this way (listen to me, I sound Quiverful – I only have the three!) I started panicking. I was not ready to have my baby and baby certainly was not ready or mature enough to face the world. AND BESIDES, WE HAD A HOLIDAY TO GET TO AND DAMNED IF I WAS GOING TO SPEND IT IN THE HOSPITAL WITH A CORK UP MY LADY PARTS! Or whatever it is they do to stop pre-term labour. I went to the hospital, hooked up to monitors while they measured my contractions and I got to listen to baby’s heart beat and him/her kicking. Praise God all was ok. No labour, they were just bad braxton hicks. I was told to take it easy and off I went back home, still worried because I didn’t quite believe them.

The day of our holiday, 9 year old managed to gash the skin of his leg wide open. There was very little blood but it was obvious he’d need stitches. Thankfully, a quick visit to the doctor (aka my father) and no stitches required; he steri stripped it, put a water proof band aid over the top and for his bravery, 9 year old was given a bright pink sugar laden drink and we headed back home to finish off the last minute packing.

Once there, all I did was potter around the apartment with my pregnant belly, while husband took the boys swimming to the pool and then the beach. I’d read a book, watch some daytime TV before heading over to the beach to meet them and play with sand, build sandcastles and walk along the shore searching for shells and poking  the odd crab hole. What is it about the beach that most of us find so relaxing? The waves can be noisy, the sea breeze at times can be fierce and the sun scorching and yet, I am at peace when I look towards the ocean, the cool waves lapping my feet.

10 weeks left of school until the next holidays. CANNOT WAIT. Although these next holidays inshaAllah will bring about a bit less relaxation and a hell of a lot more exhaustion. But peaceful and blissful all the same. Baby is due the week school closes for the Summer. Hope he/she can stay put until then.

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